Please Don't Stare at My Kid...It Stresses Him Out!

Didn't your parents teach you any manners?

Usually my son is super happy go lucky, but this day he was sweating me to get out of the gym from the first warm up set. Note to self; don’t take the boy to the gym and ask him to record form checks when he’s hot, hungry, cranky, AND freaking out because a bunch of ignorant & rude guys are staring at him.

That's something I'm working on with him. Folks tend to stare like they are trying to burn a hole in him with Superman laser vision. He's only 9 years old and too polite and too sweet to say anything, so he just clams up and kind of balls up because it stresses him out. You know, like he's trying to make himself smaller.

Staring is aggressive behavior and it makes people uncomfortable, because on some primal level, we know that instinctively. That’s why our parents always scolded us and told us “it’s not polite to stare”. Unfortunately, it’s a part of living here that must be accepted. There is just an abnormally high amount of people that apparently, were never taught that it is rude to stare.